A Vietnam vet and mechanic, Dan Weiner admitted his bisexuality to himself only eight years ago, when he was 43. ("As a Libertarian, I should have known better," he jokes.) While he was closeted, Weiner heard his fair share of "guy talk," and he knows violence against gays is nothing new. Weiner recalls one 70-year-old WWII vet recounting how upset his fellow soldiers were at the loss of extra spending money when the base cracked down on the routine beating and... More >>>