Gays -- and the people who love `em, like `em or just don't know why the government needs to mess with `em -- are still pissed about losing Proposition 8 in California, which banned gay marriages. And they're doing something about it.(The semi-inspiring sequence over a similar election in Sean Penn's Milk is also adding to their activism.)They're poring over lists of contributors and boycotting businesses and people who contributed to the drive for the ban.They've broken down contributors by sta