Dear Willie D:
I'm a 27-year-old man who doesn't mind spoiling a woman, but the self-entitlement thing that's going on with the women of today makes me want to be just as selfish as they are. Women today are lazy. They want everything but they don't want to sacrifice anything to get it. They don't want to work and even if they do they want to keep all of the money they make to themselves, and spend the man's money.
Since women are jumping up and down about equal rights for everything else, I think they should have equal rights to pay for their own meals, open their own doors and pay their [own] bills, or at least pay half if they're living with a man. I just stopped seeing a young woman whom I had dated for two months because she slapped me for calling her needy.
I could have hurt her, but again she got a free ride because she is a female. I'm sick of self-entitled females. Is this something that I'm supposed to accept as a man?
Sick of Paying:
I don't know what world you live in, but most of the women I know get up to hit the pavement 5-6 days a week and put in just as much work on the job as men do. If they have kids, they also put in countless hours driving them all over town to birthday parties, school functions and family outings.
The give-and-take in your relationship ultimately depends on your arrangement with your significant other. Most women, if given the option, would like a man to provide for them financially even if they do have a job. Because it is the natural order of society, women generally operate under the mantra of what's mine is mine and what's yours is ours.
Personally I don't mind providing financially for my woman as long as she compensates in other areas, such as taking care of the household and the kids in my absence. The type of woman you want, who earns her own money and splits the bills down the middle with her significant other, can easily be found in today's world. You just have to know where to look.
I WANT TO BLOCK MY EX-BOYFRIEND ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Dear Willie D:
So my ex-boyfriend is a cheating man-whore and I want to block him from my social accounts. I don't use the accounts a lot, but every so often when I'm on the Internet his status updates pop up on my Facebook news feed or my Instagram home page. Sometimes he likes my pictures and it pisses me off because I don't want anything to do with him. I haven't spoken to him in months, and I don't want to.
Every time I see his activities I'm reminded of a sad chapter in my life, and it's just depressing. Do you think it's immature for me to block him?
Status Updates:
No, it's not immature. You do whatever you have to do for peace of mind and to move on. Block him, but not on your phone. You're going to need a way for him to contact you so you can laugh at his pitiful voice when he comes crawling, and begging for you to take him back.
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