Update: May 14, 2019: The run for Relatively Speaking has been extended through June 2. Added performances at at 7:30 p.m. June 1 and 3 p.m. June 2, 2019.
How much do you enjoy something likeย Abbott and Costello’s famous “Who’s On First” bit? The answer to the question may be a good litmus test for how much you’ll enjoyย Alan Ayckbourn’s Relatively Speaking, now playing at Main Street Theater.
Relatively Speaking opens with Greg and Ginny, the unromanticized picture of young love. Ginny is secretive and Greg is suspicious, with good reason. Candy and flowers keep showing up at the door, an unknown caller keeps ringing and hanging up when Greg answers the phone, and a mysterious pair of menโs tartan slippers are found under the bed. On top on that, Ginny is off to see her parents and no, Greg is not invited.
Undeterred, Greg follows her, beating a train-delayed Ginny to the home of her parents, Philip and Sheila. Except โ surprise! โ theyโre not her parents at all. Philip is actually her former boss and lover, and Sheila his wife. Greg, believing Philip and Sheila are Ginnyโs parents, upends the coupleโs quiet afternoon in the country, as Sheila thinks Greg is there to talk business with her husband, but Philip comes to believe Greg is Sheilaโs โother manโ asking for her hand in marriage. When Ginny arrives, well, all bets are off as she finds that not only is Sheila home (and not in church where Ginny expected her to be), but her own boyfriend is there in a frilly apron about to set the table for lunch. And oh, what a lunch it will be.
Noรซl Coward famously sent Ayckbourn a telegram of congratulations upon seeing Relatively Speaking, and though Cowardโs kind words, โbeautifully constructedโ and โvery funny,โ arenโt exactly the most effusive or sexy, gosh darn if theyโre not right. Relatively Speaking is well-paced, well-balanced and funnier by the second, with Gregโs arrival at โThe Willows,โ Philip and Sheilaโs home, and his first meeting with Philip (if you can even call it that) pushing the play from chuckle-worthy to guffaw-inducing. And if you see shades of Shakespeare, Wilde, Goldsmith, or even Threeโs Company (itself adapted from a British sitcom) โ well, youโre not wrong either. The carefully written proper-noun-less conversations, full of โyou and me,โ โme and her,โ โher and you, โ and โus,โ keep the farce going well-past the expected snap of credulity. And a lot of credit for keeping Ayckbournโs script going goes to director Rebecca Greene Udden.
Udden leads a strong cast of four with a sure hand, all the while ensuring a very talky play stays in motion and never loses steam. The cast make good use of the space, and while Relatively Speaking is far from slapstick, everyoneโs face gets a good workout with all the โreaction shotsโ throughout.
Specifically, Tom Priorโs Philip goes through a hilarious three stages of something, going from a thousand-yard stare to hysterical laughter to untethered tantrum in the span of minutes. Blake Weir is a boyish Greg, exhibiting a good amount of โ60s neuroticism while occasionally puffing out his chest and trying out assertiveness like a new pair of pants. Lindsay Ehrhardt is skillful as cool, if bad, liar Ginny, but eventually even her facade breaks and she begins to shake at a key moment. And then thereโs Kara Greenbergโs Sheila, the most sympathetic character of the bunch.

With Ehrhardtโs Ginny deceptive and untrustworthy, and Priorโs Philip an opportunistic schemer unbothered by the idea of blackmailing a woman into a relationship with him (and Weirโs Greg just a touch too naive for his own good), Sheila is the heart of the production, and Greenberg plays her as self-possessed until she canโt be, tapping into the emotion that underlies the entire play.
Liz Freeseโs dual sets, with properties design by Rodney Walsworth, perfectly capture two opposing lifestyles. One is Ginnyโs messy London flat, which well-represents her messy life, with Philip at one point remarking, โI would hate to lead a life as complicated as yours.โ Much of the โ60s setting is established in Ginnyโs apartment, with walls of avocado green and strawberry pink, posters of Alfie and Georgy Girl, and the floral patterns that abound, along with Paige Willsonโs costumes, which include 1960s-era items such as Ginnyโs mod-ish white trench coat and beret, or Gregโs garishly striped trousers.
Freeseโs second set is that of โThe Willows,โ Philip and Sheilaโs empty seeming, countryside cottage. Shawn W. St. Johnโs sound designs are effective throughout, like the hum of Ginnyโs running shower or the squeak of the gate that announces first Greg and then Ginnyโs arrival at โThe Willows.โ But itโs the birds that chirp in the garden, as well as John Smetakโs warm, bright light, that most evoke a lovely day in the country.
More than 50 years later, since premiering in 1965, and then taking the West End by storm in โ67, Relatively Speaking serves as an interesting period piece, and a biting take on middle-class English relationships in a shifting 1960s landscape. But, more importantly, itโs still funny as all get out. And unless youโre one of the one percent who angrily yells, โWho! Who is the name of the man on first base,โ then Relatively Speaking is for you.
Performances continue at 7:30 p.m. Thursdays through Saturdays and 3 p.m. Sundays at Main Street Theater – Rice Village, 2540 Times. Through May 26 June 2. For more information, call 713-524-6706 or visit mainstreettheater.com. $36 to $48.
This article appears in Jan 1 โ Dec 31, 2019.
